I know that parents aren’t supposed to have a favorite child, but at my house my brother Peter certainly takes the cake. He turned 15 in February, and he is my parents’ final child of the lineup.
Peter first came to my house when he was five, after it was discovered that he and his dad were sleeping outside on a bench in October. After a few months at our house Peter was sent back to live his dad. Soon after they were back on the street and Peter was back at our house.
He was six when he wrote a letter to the judge asking to live at my parents’ house, because he felt scared at his own house. The judge gave Peter’s dad a choice to give up his parental rights or have them taken away. Peter was adopted into our family shortly after.

Peter with a picture of his real sisters, Mileigh and Malia. They are adopted to a family in Lincoln.
Peter is mature beyond his years, mostly from raising his sisters at a young age. I once watched him change my four month old nephew’s diaper with one hand while feeding him a bottle with the other. He paints my niece’s finger nails with pink polka dots and rhinestones, just what every little girl wants.
The saying goes, “Grow where you’re planted” and I think Peter certainly has. My mom certainly fertilizes him by making sure he is involved by putting him in horseback riding lessons, piano lessons, art lessons, 4-H and more. She makes sure he gets to visit his “real” sisters, and he goes to Campus Catch-up, which reconnects separated siblings, every year. In addition, my mom takes Peter to the Rosebud Reservation to watch the pow-wows every year.
My mom has also made sure he’s been to places that he wouldn’t have had the opportunity to see if he didn’t live with us. They flew to Florida last summer to visit my sister, who’s stationed at the naval base. Peter had the opportunity to sit in a navy airplane and tour the facilities. He’s been to Disney Land at least twice and has gone skiing most winters. He’s been to the Chicago Field Museum and Shedd Aquarium on more than one occasion.
Even though Peter is only 15 he completely understands the “Pay it Forward” mentality. He is currently working his first job stocking shelves at a grocery store. With his first paycheck ($81) he spent the entire amount on Christmas gifts for all of us including the two foster children that currently live with my parents. In addition, for Valentine’s Day he bought my mom flowers and of course, he got flowers for the girl down the street too.

A distorted picture of my family from four years ago.
My parents have eight children, four are adopted. My oldest brother Nick will be 33 when Peter graduates from high school and I will be 26. My dad told my mom they can’t adopt anymore children after Peter, because soon their grandchildren will be older than their kids. That makes Peter the baby of the family and the favorite.
I know a parent doesn’t choose favorites, but at my house I think my mom loves Pete best, because he picked us by writing a letter to a judge asking to stay at our house.